*cuddles up close to you* *puts my mouth by your ear* I NEED CONSTANT REASSURANCE THAT YOU STILL ENJOY ME AND FIND OUR RELATIONSHIP APPEALING
If you are a man who thinks it’s funny to make misogynist jokes purely to make your female friends uncomfortable/angry, then you are a misogynist. It is not “just a joke.” You literally are finding humor in the discomfort and dehumanization of women. You are not helping, you are not making satire. You are just being misogynist.
Yes, this includes you gay men.
That being said I know a number of women who use slurs and make continuous gay jokes and insist “It’s just a joke” and “You shouldn’t take it so personally” and my favorite “It doesn’t mean that!” Women’s rights are still a an uphill battle, but if you expect a level of respect for your rights and your identity you have to give it to others experiencing hardship as well. Also, it’s pretty insulting to your own cause if you still disparage another marginalized group and (in order to save your own ass) tell them that they should “get over it”. Pathetic honestly. Jokes at the expense of women, queer people, or PoC are not okay in any situation and if you don’t want one to happen you shouldn’t engage in the others.